"sijie: i cannot begin to count how many disasters you've helped to pull me through. i think monday was a huge indicator of how much of a friend you are to me. you are a wonderful girl, i can foresee a great future ahead of you. really. :) thank you for always giving me what i really need, not what i want."
it's terrible, i think im wasting time everyday...
Hana Kimi Singapore Promotion
i've moved. hope everyone's doing fine in sch.. and having fun too!
since one quarter of my life (currently) was spent here and nearly four years of momories were documented in this blog, it's time to recall the past and say thank you to the people who have made my days in school easier to pass. i shall try to list them by date, ie sec1-sec4.
holidays are flying away and school's approaching.. as i think back on how i spent my time, i feel like i've wasted a large part of it. what i've been doing is mainly eating, sleeping, 24/7 slacking,
siti's (dramatic) blog -- oct 6
was also touched when angela and mike say i'm most likely to succeed on facebook's superlative function. hmm tho i wouldn't say im close to them.. im wondering what is it abt me tt has the 'will succeed' factor? maybe it's my politeness?? at least i try to be civil to all i see..
ps = i've nt come here for a friggin 3 mths alr?!
Monday, March 12, 2007
anw a quiz grabbed from sis'. click here for chinese quiz.
第五型 理智型
五号特性:思想家
基本恐惧:无助,无能,无知
基本欲望:能干,知识丰富
对自己要求:当我成为某一方面的专家时,我就 okay 了。
特质:热忠于寻求知识,喜欢分析事物及探讨抽象的观念,从而建立理论架构。
顺境〔能干时〕:理想主义者,对这世界深刻的见解,专注于工作,敢于革新,及产生有价值的新观念。
逆境〔无能时〕愤世嫉俗,对人采取敌对及排斥的态度,自我孤立,夸大妄想,只想不做。
处理感情的方法:用抽离方式处理,仿佛是旁观者, 100 %用脑做人,不喜欢群体动作,对规则不耐烦
身体语言:双手交叉胸前,上身后倾,翘腿;面部表情;冷漠,皱起眉头;讲话方式 / 语调:平板,刻意表现深度,兜转,没有感情。
常用词汇:我想;我认为;我的分析是……;我的意见是……;我的立场是……
工作环境:理论,逻辑;单独工作,无时间限制;不必管理别人。
不能处理逆境时出现的特征:与现实脱节型:
吝啬:有被吞噬的恐惧;抗拒感情牵绑;病态式的自我孤立;冷血、无感觉;延迟采取行为;认知导向;空虚感;内疚;自卑;负面;过敏;长时间独处, 希望不被骚扰;有特殊专长,基本技能劣拙;想象能力极高,特别多恐惧;不祈望被爱=防止伤害
五号警钟:感觉被人或事掩盖时,实时退避入思维世界;从客观与安全的立场评估环境;与实际情况脱节;集中思维上的评论=抽离;累积的评论成为五号的现实。
座右铭:知识就是力量
典型冲突:难以接近,令人 ( 尤其二号及四号 ) 有挫败感
优点:学者风范,有深度,处变不惊
缺点:自觉高人一等,与人保持距离
最适宜工作环境:有足够的时间去思考及分析,不必做出实时响应
不适宜工作环境:公开竞争及对抗
令人舒服地方:不感情用事,样样有数据支持
令人不满地方:太过冷冰冰,城府深,高深莫测
沟通要点:不要侵犯五号的空间及时间;避免一切身体接触;不要求五号给予实时的反应,容许他们有时间思索; 采取主动;不要对五号的思想或感受做出假设;五号不能处理人际冲突,帮助他们缓和此类情况。
激发要点:赞赏五号的学识及分析能力,容许五号在采取行动前做出说尽观察;协助五号成为业内的专家;邀请五号评论其它同事的表现;让五号有足够的空间及时间去自我伸展;协助五号明暸他们冷冰冰的态度对人的影响。
号的时间管理:私人时间;解救方案;容许五号有私人时间;五号擅于做事后分析,不要催促他们做出决定;五号容易将思考与行动混淆,以为思考过等于做了,帮助他们集中结果,及做定时检讨;一定要给予五号清楚的限期成事。
5 号达成协议:准备充份的数据;做出全理性的讨论;让五号有足够时间思考。
常见问题:独家村,神秘人
解救方案:基本上容许他做独行侠,同时帮他看到他对小组的独特贡献,及小组对他的支持.
Saturday, January 20, 2007
Chun & Ella will stay one more day on 29th for Hana Kimi promotion! Dadong (Jiro) will not be staying as he have filming commitments.
Place: Tampines Mall (Open Plaza) -- same as where SHE held theirs
Date: 29 January 2007 (Monday)
Time: 7pm
Please bring Hana Kimi OST (Singapore Edition) for autograph signing!!
Source: HIM & http://onlyfrh.proboards101.com/index ...
oh my they're coming!! and it's so near. but kinda late.. maybe if i have a :friends' gathering: i can go.. but dong isn't coming! that's the sad part!
kd can meet chun thrice!! at kbox union, autog session and hanakimi.. she surely HIGH fan tian ba..
Tuesday, January 09, 2007
Sunday, December 31, 2006
a big KAMSAMIDA to cewanne, kendra, felicia, kunhui, carol, fawn, serene, simin, shermin, sabrina, shengjie, yiying, josephine, sihui, geraldine, chermaine, yagnya and yu ting!
THANK YOU because in some way or another, at one time or another, you have offered or given me help/car rides, brought me laughter, or just lent me your company!
First days at school
A senior tapped me on the back as she mistook me for another person. plus I think I got booked for not wearing nametag and badge. I remember Orientation was really fun (esp the one at night), and one of my first few friends are Shermin, kd, Feli and Kun. went home with shermin and kd and we made lots of jokes, and kept laughing. and i think we also had a 'sister' group thingy.. what da jie, er jie.. and dunno who, tink it's feli said i look very scary with a torch under my face! HAHA.
Twins
I had a lookalike by the name of Lydia who's a senior in Choir. she's a fairer and non-spectacled version of me (pls dont compare who's prettier HAHAHA). no wonder at TIP (talent identification programme), quite a few seniors asked me:"do u have a sister?" too bad didnt take photos with her. Not only were my looks 'stolen', my name was also 'stolen'. Cause there's a janice lsj in another class. but i have another 'actual' twin in my own class: tt's sijia! our names only differ by one letter! cool right. and many people initially thought we were sisters.. i think mrs loy got tricked and she was not too happy when the truth was revealed?! HAHAH cew tt time told me she kinda told the classes she taught abt us?!
NerdySteady
S&N, my sec1 and 2 clique! i think it was fawn who gave us this name.. the 'nerdy' part (haha) but we added 'steady' to it :D
I met Kendra in the hall when we were filling up this form for bowling TIP. cause i asked her and jingchun whether it is counted if i've been to bowling once or sth. and they were quite nice and kd's head zoomed like a snake to answer my query.
Dunno how I met Feli but I thought she looks like the quiet and nice type so i kept pestering her (and kun) and asking questions. and to think that she disliked me at first sight! hahaha i must have been too irritating.
As for carol, only knew her much later, and we were grouped together to do Home Econs project. and i think she confessed later that she was rather unhappy at that time cos she didnt get to work with simin HAHA!
Computer Club
Didnt get into any TIP (except softball first round.. and there i met a nice senior who looks like the tk doll) so didnt really know which cca to join. but aft discussing with cew, we decided to join comp club. really no regrets.
it's shld be renamed slackers' club, and yi ying's like always playing comp games throughout the entire lessons! LOL.. and we get to eat while enjoying aircon. basically i didnt really pick up much inside cos i think i did not pay 100percent attn either ): but we get cca points for joining competitions which is wierd becos i certainly did not represent the school in any. i tink they count our entries/effort as that la even if they were not chosen in the end.. but sheng did the most la, for the video thing. so guilty! i had fun inside and it was becos of compclub (CC) tt i met sab, sheng, yiying and of course other members!
but this CC Teacher post is as jinxed as the post for Defence Against the Dark Arts. I think we changed teachers yearly. Firstly there was Mr Lim, Mr Duffy, Mr Hay, and now Mr Leow... the tchers nv get angry and most of them are really nice.
Puntuality
When I first started school, I remember planning to meet Qinyu at 6am to go to school together.. then she didnt turn up at the time and I was so nervous I'll be late. Gradually, as years went by, I left the house later and later .. and by sec4, it's 6.45am when I step out of the house door. it's no wonder i've been booked quite a few times for being late!
Hair
My hair has always been messy, qiao4 and short in sec1, birdnest-like in sec2, still untidy in sec3 (rmb stefanie once told me: ur hair is overgrown. hahaaa). only this year did I decide to try keeping it long. but my hair is still in need of makeover la.. noticed alot of ppl changed lengths of their hair this yr. it may have been due to olvl stress hahaa.
long to short: andrea, amelia, shengjie, kd, gee, elisse, fawn
short to long: me, sooboon
Prom
So ironic, we've been discussing in jest since sec3 or something: 'have u prepared ur prom dress?' but when it was organised, we didnt go. haha, ticket so ex..and need to prepare so many things in advance.. dress, shoes, hair, makeup. biang. but nvm jc still have..
Firsts
Tried a few new things during this 4yr period.. eg kbox, autograph sessions (to leehom's and fann's w/ sab HAHA), ordering rojak myself, jobs, eating the worth of my money at sakae buffet, late for movie (she's the man?!), taking cab to sch (w/ ferena, charmaine, xiaotian cos tt time we were gonna be late)..
Special Mention
been in the same sch with cew and hannah for 10yrs alr, farhana's 9 yrs! each of us have some accomplishments in our own right and made qnps proud (er?!?!) .. eg cew got into science competition and her face's plastered on the banner hung at the school gate. farhana became a prefect and hannah's the class commediene..
'longest' classmates
kun and xxian. we've all been in 'e5' for 4 yrs. so diao!
being a class furniture
was in class comm for a few yrs but i make a really bad class furniture, vice or otherwise. but thank you to classmates who picked me, cos i got cca points as a result, which gave me bonus pts for entry to jc (despite deteoriating results)! still unable to organise activities and make announcements well though..
Teachers
Mr Edmund Lim (sec1 comp studies): quite a nice tcher but he can sometimes go mad/crazy. labbit was infatuated with him, HAHAHA NO LA!
Ms Susan Tee (sec3/4 physics): dedicated and loves to pile us with notes. Appeared strict/doesnt smile when we first met her but came to joke around when we know her better. this is a really good tactic to earn students' respect.. cos if u joke joke at first, students will jus keep talking when u teach. but hers is strict to always-suppressing-her-laughter-humour. no wonder clas still keeps quiet when she teaches. sab is warning: "dont UM CHIO! (dun laugh in the dark)" also likes to call me to help her sort out stuff ahhaha.
Ms Yeo (sec4 amath): She's very eccentric but i like her way of teaching.. she's very steady and plans her stuff very well, so all of us can finish the syllabus before olvl!
Jobs
Tried out my hand at selling uniform in mx school ['05] and also giving peel and win cards at the airport ['06]. thanks to mx and kd's intro.
Jay craze
peaked in 2004, was kinda devastated that i cldnt attend his 'incomparable' concert. but nvm he helped me to start on my savings plan.. i must go for at least one of his concerts (mayb nxt yr?!) .. but i fear the noise cos my ears hate loud noises.
last but not least thanks to the sch for providing enrichment courses like guitar (though i still chao lan4), rollerblading and phonetics! plus tchers for their teaching and guidance!
hope everyone has a happy new year's eve. enjoy the last day of 2006.
Friday, December 29, 2006
ogling at shuai ge watching tw idol drama, working for a week, going out with friends.. and not upgrading myself. or trying to improve some subjects like chinese. and leading an extremely sedentary and unhealthy lifestyle, feeding on (no, not leavings and garbage of the british system in 'English Teacher') oily, salty, fattening food .. without EXERCISING which is really one of my more impt plans for this dec vacation. hey wait! one accomplishment: i started (and finished?) my harrypotter scrap book yay! and watched 5movies (2 of which i dun understand ie matrix2 and 3)! HAHA.. planned to watch loads of kdramas/movies but didnt.
currently, these are the shows i wanna watch if i have the time:
TAIWAN:
The Rose -- because I've read the comic and the show seems quite nice.. plus Joe Cheng's inside! but i have to wait for 2 more years because of its M18 rating.. and by then the show will be like 6 years old already!
Love Contract -- heard it's not bad and Mike He definitely looks better here than in Devil Beside You.
KOREA:
Jewel in the Palace -- because it's such a hit and it looks like a heartwarming story with no cheesy loveydovey things.
JAPAN:
One Liter of Tears -- which looks like it's able to induce one to cry buckets, but im more attracted to the fact that it has only 10 episodes, which means it will be finished soon!
and cew jus called to say TJ called her.. and say what we must assemble at auditorium at 7am, i think. plus bring 22 bucks for some orientation pack, and extra clothes. so scary and i've not recieved the call yet! my hands and feet were sweating when she told me.. hahaa dunno why but im like xtremely nervous for school. hope the games will not be too difficult or scary hahaha..
and havent really decided what subjects to take. kd was telling me abt the MJ's KI and Lit.. the teachers say what students taking them must be able to speak well. oh no im really a bad public speaker ): thinking of trying KI for 1st 3 mths but it sounds very intidimating.. some more i flipped through my sis' econs book and it looks so boring and difficult! and read the PAE book agn.. to my horror, tj says students taking clep must offer H3 chinese, and one of the test papers is to compose a prose/poetry/commentary?! but nvm.. 1st 3 mths won't have all that i think.
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